5 Works Way to Survive the Bullying

No one likes bullying. Except those people who do it. Yeah, and i'm sure everyone had been bullied, i'm also ever feels that distress. It's OK, as long as the bully doesn't kill you. If it does, you should report to someone.

I ever felt being bullied several times. And that has made me stronger and experienced, and now I know how to survive those condition. Actually, they're so simple. But, I must know what's the bullying type. Yes, based on my opinion, there are two bullying type. First, you are bullied by your own friends. It means you don't like how they treat you but they don't know that, or they do but they think it is nice to bully you because you are their friend and maybe they hate you a little. And the two is you are bullied by brats. I think this is better than being bullied by your own friends. Well, I hope the list below will help both.

1. Be quiet, shut up your mouth.

This is perfect to survive from being bullied by your own friend. Generally, your friend won't use any violence. So being quiet will make them quiet too. Sometime it will works for brats, but I'm not very sure. Brats will increase their bully if you protest, and do the same thing if you quiet. What is the difference? Almost same. If you quiet, they will find any other way to make you angry and put attentions to them. Like using violence, or ignorant to you.

2. Reply their Insult/deed.

Don't be scared. Reply everything they do. If they ignorant you, ignorant back exactly. They will feel what you feel, and maybe they will think to do that again in other day. The reaction is much. They will mad, and ask you to 1 vs 1. It's OK, do what they're ask, and do the best. Don't be scared!

3. Do nice to them

You can ask them to talk. But don't talk anything about the bullying. Talk anything except it. Maybe like, where do you live, where do you come from, etc. Usually, there will be two reaction. They will utilize your deed, and bully you from that way. It's OK, keep doing nice to them. And the second reaction is, they will be your friend.

4. Be a friend even to one Brat.

If you are friends with even one brat, that's very nice. I'm very sure right now you have no brat friend. If you do, the other brats should be your friend too, and think you are nice enough to not being bullied by them.

5. Don't be Alone

You must have friends. Always with them and talk them. Don't put any poor face. That's bad, and trigger them to bully you.

I've do those 5 ways, and each works even with barriers. However, if you SURVIVE the BULLY, you can be friends with those brats! That's very nice network. Thank You.

How can I be familiar with friends?

Familiar with friends could be called as best friend too or not. Familiar means you don't need to keep your image so much, and you don't so keep your words. Just like a friend from your childhood. But, how can I do this?

Well, I don't know will this works in every country, because each of them has their own culture.

1. Act Like You Know Me (ALYKM)

This works to someone that has the same age with you. So, what is ALYKM? How to perform this? Well, there are a lot of the way to do this. One of the way is to mock someone a little. Like:

lol, are you ok?

WTF

WTH

and others as long as they're not too rude.

2. Approach them

This is the most logic way to do. You can approach one person or more. But, it's great to approach one-by-one.

3. Join any event

If there is an event which involves the friends, you can join too. I know, in the first time, you don't know what should to do. You would be alone. Yes, for a short time. There is two way to get out from that condition: approach them (ALYKM) or wait them to approach you.

4. Protect their disgrace

Even you do ALYKM, you must protect their disgrace. However, it's over than rude. Protecting their grace grants you trust from them.

5. Modestly

Humble yourself. Don't think you are better than them, even to younger friend. This is great. Even you will be insulted, by a younger, it's OK, as well as it's not so far.

I think this is enough. Then try it right now! Told me if it helps you :)

How to easily adapt with any new place

Here in Indonesia, there are a lot of culture. This would be kinda hard to adapt in different place in here. But, that's not, actually. Just read my article below. And I'm sure this also works in every country.

1. Introduce and greet neighbour

This is the main point of adapting in new place. We don't know who are our new neighbours. So we need to introduce first, included the greetings. And you must talk more than your Interlocutors.

2. Smile to everyone

Maybe there is a lot of culture difference you don't know in the new place. But, smile is an universal culture that works in every place. Smile to everyone. This is one of the way to do introduce even you do not talk them and tell your name.

3. Approach someone you think could be bestfriend

If you find someone you think great, usually based on his/her behaviour, you can approach them and talk more than others. It's great to close to someone, especially to a person which has the same age with you, or the older one.

4. Appreciate the culture and the condition of the place

This is also great. Maybe you have your own culture. So if you want to be appreciated, appreciate others. You have to appreciate the condition too. Like what? Example, if there is a little kids playing around your house, appreciate them and don't put a bad face. Smile to even a kid.

5. Pull and Overextend

If you don't want to be so close to your neighbours, you can do Pull and Overextend. Why? Of course, you can't always trust everyone. Maybe you live in a criminal place. Or you can't trust the place because of a reason. What is Pull and Overextend? Well, the main purpose is to makes you around close and far. You can accept them sometime and decline them sometime too.

Well, those ways are so great for me. You can do it too wherever you are. Please told me if this helps. Thank you!

What should you do while waiting someone without phones?

Nowadays it seems like we can't live without phones. This stuff is very important in any case, anytime, and anywhere. That's why your life could be taken by a phone. Today phone just like a pet, a very loved thing.

So how if someday you don't bring your phone, or your phone is being broken, and then you are alone. Especially, you are in a public place, which everyone can put attention to you. A few of you don't like being alone especially without phone and in a public place. If you don't care and you want to be yourself wherever you are, don't read this. And if you want to stay cool, please read below.

Things you should do while waiting someone without phones

1. Use a black eyeglasses and stay cool

If you don't like your face being looked by anyone, or even if you don't like your own face, use a black eyeglasses to protect them.

2. Talk to someone

This is one of the great way. Talk to someone grants you many things. You got new friend and experience. If you confused which people you can talk with, pick old people. They are good in talking.

3. Do poses periodically

You can select poses you want to do and do them periodically. This will makes you looks not so rigid or and cool.

4. Take a Walk

This is one of the great way. If your meet point is or near park, building, restaurant, take a walk to those places. But remember to keep remember your friend. Select a place which you can watch your friend from far away.

5. Confidence

This the main point of my article, actually. Those list above won't work if you are not confidence :).

Please note that I don't put any guarantee to those list above. But, I really sure they works. Now, it depends to you. BTW, thanks for visiting my blog :)!.