No one likes bullying. Except those people who do it. Yeah, and i'm sure everyone had been bullied, i'm also ever feels that distress. It's OK, as long as the bully doesn't kill you. If it does, you should report to someone.
I ever felt being bullied several times. And that has made me stronger and experienced, and now I know how to survive those condition. Actually, they're so simple. But, I must know what's the bullying type. Yes, based on my opinion, there are two bullying type. First, you are bullied by your own friends. It means you don't like how they treat you but they don't know that, or they do but they think it is nice to bully you because you are their friend and maybe they hate you a little. And the two is you are bullied by brats. I think this is better than being bullied by your own friends. Well, I hope the list below will help both.
1. Be quiet, shut up your mouth.
This is perfect to survive from being bullied by your own friend. Generally, your friend won't use any violence. So being quiet will make them quiet too. Sometime it will works for brats, but I'm not very sure. Brats will increase their bully if you protest, and do the same thing if you quiet. What is the difference? Almost same. If you quiet, they will find any other way to make you angry and put attentions to them. Like using violence, or ignorant to you.
2. Reply their Insult/deed.
Don't be scared. Reply everything they do. If they ignorant you, ignorant back exactly. They will feel what you feel, and maybe they will think to do that again in other day. The reaction is much. They will mad, and ask you to 1 vs 1. It's OK, do what they're ask, and do the best. Don't be scared!
3. Do nice to them
You can ask them to talk. But don't talk anything about the bullying. Talk anything except it. Maybe like, where do you live, where do you come from, etc. Usually, there will be two reaction. They will utilize your deed, and bully you from that way. It's OK, keep doing nice to them. And the second reaction is, they will be your friend.
4. Be a friend even to one Brat.
If you are friends with even one brat, that's very nice. I'm very sure right now you have no brat friend. If you do, the other brats should be your friend too, and think you are nice enough to not being bullied by them.
5. Don't be Alone
You must have friends. Always with them and talk them. Don't put any poor face. That's bad, and trigger them to bully you.
I've do those 5 ways, and each works even with barriers. However, if you SURVIVE the BULLY, you can be friends with those brats! That's very nice network. Thank You.
I ever felt being bullied several times. And that has made me stronger and experienced, and now I know how to survive those condition. Actually, they're so simple. But, I must know what's the bullying type. Yes, based on my opinion, there are two bullying type. First, you are bullied by your own friends. It means you don't like how they treat you but they don't know that, or they do but they think it is nice to bully you because you are their friend and maybe they hate you a little. And the two is you are bullied by brats. I think this is better than being bullied by your own friends. Well, I hope the list below will help both.
1. Be quiet, shut up your mouth.
This is perfect to survive from being bullied by your own friend. Generally, your friend won't use any violence. So being quiet will make them quiet too. Sometime it will works for brats, but I'm not very sure. Brats will increase their bully if you protest, and do the same thing if you quiet. What is the difference? Almost same. If you quiet, they will find any other way to make you angry and put attentions to them. Like using violence, or ignorant to you.
2. Reply their Insult/deed.
Don't be scared. Reply everything they do. If they ignorant you, ignorant back exactly. They will feel what you feel, and maybe they will think to do that again in other day. The reaction is much. They will mad, and ask you to 1 vs 1. It's OK, do what they're ask, and do the best. Don't be scared!
3. Do nice to them
You can ask them to talk. But don't talk anything about the bullying. Talk anything except it. Maybe like, where do you live, where do you come from, etc. Usually, there will be two reaction. They will utilize your deed, and bully you from that way. It's OK, keep doing nice to them. And the second reaction is, they will be your friend.
4. Be a friend even to one Brat.
If you are friends with even one brat, that's very nice. I'm very sure right now you have no brat friend. If you do, the other brats should be your friend too, and think you are nice enough to not being bullied by them.
5. Don't be Alone
You must have friends. Always with them and talk them. Don't put any poor face. That's bad, and trigger them to bully you.
I've do those 5 ways, and each works even with barriers. However, if you SURVIVE the BULLY, you can be friends with those brats! That's very nice network. Thank You.
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